Every child is unique. Discovering your child’s strengths can set him up for success at an early age. A child’s strengths are built up from the activities, relationships and learning styles that stimulate him. These strengths become the inner traits that make a child feel more cheerful, confident and energetic. Parents can assist their child in the development of strengths from a young age.
How can parents figure out what a child’s true strengths are? Below are 3 ways to start on the journey of discovering your child’s strengths.
- Playtime
Children are allowed to unleash and utilise their strengths during imaginative play. If you observe your child at play, you may learn a lot about what he likes, how he socialises and how he sees himself. Make every effort to keep your child in the driver’s seat. Let him conduct the teaching and displaying in any activity that involves his abilities, rather than the other way round.
- Encourage and motivate
Encourage your child if you see that he has a natural flair for making friends. Compliment your child if you witness him being the first to help others without being asked. Applaud your child if you realise that he is highly curious about exploring.
Praise and acknowledge your children’s abilities so that they learn to recognise these qualities in themselves over time. Share with them all the ways they can utilise their skills to help others, create meaningful jobs, establish relationships and even make a difference in the world.
- Slow down and listen
While most parents want their children to succeed, they might inadvertently burden them by critiquing everything they do. Instead of forcing a grade onto their work, take time to listen to their opinions. Ask open-ended questions and indicate interest in their perspectives. Always ask follow-up questions that allow them to elaborate on their feelings. When you let go of your expectations and listen to them, they are more open to discovering what truly energises them.
Discovering and building on your child’s strengths are a lifelong process. What other tips would you recommend?
